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Get Real! Why Can’t I Orgasm?

The very best thing I can tell you to do when it comes to becoming orgasmic is to masturbate.

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Get Real! How Do I Learn to Trust Him?

When you are having issues with trust due to sexual abuse or for any other reason, three basic factors to pay attention to are your partner’s competency, consistency over time, and congruency between words and behavior.

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Get Real! On Female Ejaculation

What you’re doing in bed with your partner should center around what you both individually find exciting and pleasurable, not just on what he had happen with another partner or finds to be “cool” or a novelty.

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Get Real! Sex and Some Change

Will sex change things? Probably yes. It can bring about or illuminate changes in the relationships it occurs within, changes in our other relationships, and changes in ourselves.

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Roundup: Opposition to HHS Rule; Religious Right Leaders Grumble Over Warren’s Planned Invocation

Reporting on the widespread opposition to HHS rule; religious right leaders grumble over Warren’s planned invocation; make mothers vectors for health information; Ariel Levy reviews new and old editions of “Joy of Sex,” “Our Bodies, Ourselves.”

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Get Real! I Want to Be Held, But That Doesn’t Happen

You are entitled to all kinds of relationships and a sex life that are uniquely about who you are, what you want and need, and where your unique body and mind are at any given time.

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Ten Things to Do Before You Have Sex

The questionnaire

Do you know your partner’s sexual history? Have you had an orgasm? Do you have your friends’ blessing? Some things to take care of before you have any kind of sex.

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Get Real! Why Couldn’t I Get It Up?

In order to have a healthy relationship with our sexual bodies, we need to have realistic expectations of our bodies and accept that there will be times our bodies won’t do what we want them to.

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Get Real! What Does Sex Feel Like?

In many ways, asking what sex feels like is asking what life feels like: these are just incredibly diverse and unique experiences.

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Get Real! How Do I Convince Him to Use a Condom?

Frankly, if I had a partner who was trying to talk his way out of cooperating with managing risks, I wouldn’t just insist on a condom. I would insist on not being sexual with that person at all.

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