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Get Real! How Can I Give My Sister Sex Ed?

The basics of a good sex education, according to me, address the body and self as a whole, including sexual anatomy and reproduction, sexual identity, sexual feelings, personal limits and boundaries.

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Get Real! Is Intercourse A Violation?

Physically, and often emotionally, sex is about both people being actively engaged, doing something together, not about one person doing something to, on or at the other.

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Get Real! How Do You Have Good Sex Sober?

Know what? While alcohol can reduce a person’s inhibitions, another thing it often does reduce how aroused — how turned on — a person can get.

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Get Real! She’s Under 18, How Can She Get an Abortion?

If your girlfriend is pregnant, and does decide abortion is her best choice, having someone with her and having it paid for may be less than she needs: those are but the bare basics.

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Get Real! Hopping Mad About Herpes

I can’t begin to tell you how many people in the world don’t know that they have oral herpes, and don’t know that cold sores are a symptom of oral herpes.

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Get Real! I Don’t Feel Ready for Sex – Should I?

Age-in-years, all by itself, doesn’t tend to be a good marker of when someone is or is not ready for sex.

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Get Real! Did I Lose My Virginity By Masturbating?

Virginity is a cultural idea, not a medical fact, and not a particularly useful one. And masturbation is A-OK.

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Get Real! Rape Is Not Her Fault

No one is responsible for “making someone horny.” In fact, much of the time, none of us has any control at all over whether or not someone experiences sexual desire.

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Get Real! I’m Being Sexually Harassed at Work; What Should I Do?

Sexual harassment at work is serious business: it’s against the law. You’re entitled to a safe workplace where you are treated with the same respect you afford your co-workers.

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Get Real! Why Can’t I Orgasm?

The very best thing I can tell you to do when it comes to becoming orgasmic is to masturbate.

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