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Get Real! Out, Out Damn UTI!

Urinary tract infections (UTIs) probably are not influenced by how you clean your body after sex, but there are a host of preventative measures you can take if you’re not taking them already.

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Get Real! What If I Never Want or Feel Ready for Sex?

You should never feel afraid you have to do anything you do not want to just because someone else wants it from you for themselves, very much including having sex.

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Get Real! Getting Past the Shoulda, Woulda, Coulda.

The relationship you are continuing to invest in now is not the same one you had or thought you had in the past: it’s what you have right now.

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Get Real! I Don’t Want to Spend My Life Never Being Satisfied by Sex and I am FREAKING OUT.

On the whole, people who go about sex in a goal- or product-oriented way tend to feel less satisfied with sex and their sex lives.

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Get Real! How Can We Talk About Sex Without Pressure?

When someone is worried about what you’ll say exerting sexual pressure, but is coming from the wonderful, thoughtful place that you are, these worries are often displaced.

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Get Real! My Boyfriend Wants Naked Pictures of Me: Should I Do It?

I would STRONGLY advise you against doing this solely because of the potentially grave legal consequences.

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Get Real: Age 13 and “100%” Ready for Sex?

Just. Slow. Down. You keep saying you just don’t know about all of this. That’s okay: you don’t have to know. But do yourself a favor and don’t put yourself in a position where you have to.

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Get Real! The Age of Consent…For What, Exactly?

Ages of consent tend to vary from around the age of 15 – 18 in different states. But what kind of sex they’re talking about, and what kinds of charges might be involved, is where we see a lot more variation.

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Get Real! My Rape is Stuck in My Head. How Do I Get it Out?

Rape is a violent crime, and it is normal for any of us to experience trauma from a violent crime being committed to, on or inside of us. And it is a unique trauma: physical, emotional, verbal, sexual, psychological, interpersonal.

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Get Real! I Like Gay Male Porn, But Gay Men in Real Life Freak Me Out

What a person wants and enjoys in media — including pornography– may or may not have any relationship to what they want and enjoy in real life.

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