Roundup: Media Says Every Woman Regrets Her Abortion — No Exceptions
According to the media, every unintended pregnancy is the result of a careless woman, and every woman secretly wanted someone to force her keep the baby.
It’s become a non-stop theme now that every woman regrets her abortion, regardless of if she says so or not. And it’s a theme that the media seems intent on pushing.
Recently, Abby Wisse Schachter wrote in the New York Post that abortion should always carry a stigma. Now, after getting response back from Planned Parenthood that a woman should not feel shame over something that is best for her and her family, Wisse Schachter counters by totally changing the subject:
If we agree that the goal is to reduce the need for abortion, and Planned Parenthood is interested in having women make the best decision available to them, why isn’t choosing not to abort one of the options listed here? It seems possible, and even likely, that for some woman, somewhere, some of the time, staying pregnant and, say, giving the child up for adoption might actually be a better choice than abortion. And yet, according to this organization, such a choice is never the best option.
The reason that it isn’t mentioned as an option, of course, is because Wisse Schachter was originally discussing why all women should feel ashamed of having an abortion, regardless of if it is in their best interest or not, not “all women should be stigmatized for having a pregnancy they don’t want, regardless of what they intend to do with it.”
But maybe that’s really whatWisse Schachter meant? If so, perhaps she should just come out and say it, like Valerie Ulene does in the Los Angeles Times:
For women, the consequences of an unintended pregnancy are obvious. But there are consequences for the baby as well. Women who aren’t actively trying to conceive may not recognize that they’re pregnant immediately — and, as a result, would be more likely to engage in potentially risky behaviors like drinking and smoking during the first few weeks of fetal development. Prenatal care, meanwhile, is often delayed. “The risk for damage is significant,” Nettleman says. A 2009 study she authored found that women who were late in learning that they were pregnant were more likely to have babies who are born prematurely.
Unfortunately, there’s no quick fix. “Some unintended pregnancies will be with us always,” Nettleman says. “It’s a complex issue. Simply telling women to straighten up and fly right isn’t the answer.”
Undoubtedly, women need to be better educated about birth control and its proper use. And more acceptable methods of contraception — ones that have fewer side effects and are more convenient to use — must be developed. But straightening up and flying right is part of the solution too.
With few exceptions, unintended pregnancies are not “accidents.” They are predictable consequences of having sex without contraception.
But in case you haven’t caught on yet, every unintended pregnancy is the result of an irresponsible woman, and apparently if you look inside the head of every woman seeking an abortion, she secretly just wanted someone to tell her she had to keep the baby. Or so says The Guardian. From the article titled “What I’m Really Thinking: The Abortion Patient”
There isn’t a choice: I am an unemployed recent graduate barely able to afford the pregnancy test, with a boyfriend on bar wages. But after the scan, I want the nurse to find some unfathomable medical reason why termination isn’t an option, so I’d be justified in keeping a child I don’t want to lose but can’t really provide for.
Got it? No wonder everyone thinks every woman is ashamed.
Mini Roundup: Can someone please explain “temporary sterilization” to me? And if it’s voluntary, isn’t that what we are asking for in adding free birth control to preventative care?
November 15, 2010
- Government to focus on maternal, child health in 250 districts – Sify
- Most State Antiabortion-Rights Laws Unconstitutional, Advocate Writes In Letter – Medical News Today (press release)
- Abortion-Rights Supporters Face ‘Most Hostile Congress’ In Decades, The … – Medical News Today (press release)
- Iowa Abortion-Rights Opponents Plan Fight Against Carhart’s New Clinic – Medical News Today (press release)
- Antiabortion Group Wants To Air Additional Graphic Commercials – Medical News Today (press release)
- US sends millions to Zimbabwe for circumcision amidst a Nor Cal ban proposal – Examiner.com
- Blogs Comment On Tweeting About Abortion, ‘Purity’ Movement, Other Topics – Medical News Today (press release)
- Reproductive health forum in Ghana addresses unsafe abortions in Africa – News-Medical.net
- Immigration, gun rights on lawmakers’ agendas – KETK
- Planned Parenthood: Abortion shouldn’t be stigmatized – New York Post (blog)
- HIV rates among pregnant women are stable – Times LIVE (blog)
- Celebrity mums put pressure on women to lose baby weight – WalesOnline
- Philippine Lawmakers To Push Comprehensive Family Planning Bill Next Year – Medical News Today (press release)
- Aftermath of abortion: Woman defecates through the mouth – Nigerian Tribune
- Oregon scientist investigates safety, effectiveness of novel low-cost family … – News-Medical.net
- Lets act urgently curb maternal deaths – The Citizen Daily
- Burma’s Poll Called ‘Yes Vote’ for Junta Rapes – WomensRadio
- Prenatal nutrition under scrutiny – Edmonton Journal
- State roundup: Calif. speeds ahead on health reform; Nebraska abortion … – News-Medical.net
- What needs to be implemented in India today – Indian Express
- Letters from readers: Better birth control method – Florida Times-Union
- AG: Informed Consent On Abortion Bill Would Pass Constitutional Muster, But … – Pacific News Center
- New moms can prevent diabetes by keeping up healthy habits – Indian Country Today
November 14, 2010
- Abstinence-only ed. not enough – Charlottesville Daily Progress
- NAACP Supports Federal Funding for Syringe Exchange Programs – Examiner.com
- More cancers linked to infections – Radio Australia
- Sex education for all – Salt Lake Tribune
- Monetary relief for rape victims soon – Times of India
- Wanted: leadership and direction – SX News (blog)
- RH bill about rights, not health – Inquirer.net
- Save HIV – positive children from trauma – New Vision
- Protecting Afghan women a possible post-combat role for Canada – National Post
- Spanish PM defends social reforms after papal criticism – Times LIVE
- Analysis: New Kan. gov. faces trouble on right – NECN
- Is teen pregnancy glamorized by the media? – Blast
- Indonesia: taboos lead to high levels of maternal mortality – MediaGlobal
- Disseminating birth control information: Azad – Sify
- Anorexic Women Have More Abortions – Newser
- Missouri wins race to bottom – Columbia Daily Tribune
- Malaysia plans sex education for six year olds – AFP
- Medicaid easy to cut in theory, not reality – Columbus Dispatch
- Free birth control is the right prescription – The Star-Ledger – NJ.com (blog)
- Philippine lawmakers set to push family planning bill – Montgomery Advertiser
- One in four Bali prostitutes ‘HIV-positive’ – AsiaOne
- UCSC professor explores feminicide in Latin America – Santa Cruz Sentinel
- Cervical cancer jabs are still safe for girls, insists Scottish Government – Scottish Daily Record
- Female genital cutting needs more dialogue: researchers – Winnipeg Free Press
- Medicaid squeeze: Shrinking federal reimbursements cause doctors to limit care … – Lansing State Journal
- Street teens have sex at an early age – Times of India
- HIV/AIDS campaign disrupted by discrimination and social stigma – TopNews New Zealand
- GOP Pays For Ignoring Social Conservatives – Hartford Courant
- Why the health of pregnant women matters to us all – Washington Post
- Women’s clinic that made local history is closing – Yakima Herald-Republic
- CSL wants free cancer vaccine for boys – Sydney Morning Herald
- Conservative legislators in Texas seek to opt out of Medicaid – Fort Worth Star Telegram
November 13, 2010
- Doctors link contraceptives, breast cancer – Dayton Daily News
- Sex education for all M’sian primary schools next year – AsiaOne
- Parents: Learning about birds and bees at early age may sting kids – AsiaOne
- UT to improve child health, assures Patil – Indian Express
- Psychologist hands in report on sex textbook – Sunday Times.lk
- It’s all about sex education, not about asking children to go have sex! – Sunday Times.lk
- Anthony Westbury: Rape is never the victim’s fault – TCPalm
- Clinton’s population growth idea nonsense, says Lagman – Inquirer.net
- Global leadership: In Rwanda, women run the show – Christian Science Monitor
- Promote education among women: Pratibha – The Hindu
- Cindy McCain Reverses Course On ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ – Huffington Post
- Lagman chides Clinton for comment on Phl population – Philippine Star
- Schoolboys to be offered cervical cancer vaccine Gardasil to stamp out human … – Courier Mail
- don’t let politics block drug bill for AIDS victims in developing countries – Ottawa Citizen
- Abortion is synonym for murder – Odessa American
- Was abortion a wave-stopper for Democrats in 2010? – Politico
- Balinese Teens Take on the Birds and the Bees – Bali Discovery
- Texting Saves Lives of HIV Patients, Study Confirms – AngolaPress
- Why Being Single Can Be Great for You — And Your Future Relationships – AlterNet
- Sex education in a perfect world – Ottawa Citizen
- Pope sanctifies Sagrada Familia, rounds on abortion Pope Benedict most recent … – VIP Newsroom
- Researcher takes ‘mosaic’ approach with new HIV vaccine – New Mexican
- Words still divide abortion foes – The Journal News | LoHud.com
- It’s time to stem tide of premature births – Memphis Commercial Appeal
- To Gardisil or Not? – Technorati
November 12, 2010
- Africa: Texting Saves Lives of HIV Patients, Study Confirms – AllAfrica.com
- ‘I’m in control’, so say ‘no’ to premarital sex – AsiaOne
- Unintended pregnancies aren’t ‘accidents’ – Los Angeles Times
- The results are in… What really goes on in Britain’s bedrooms – Daily Mail
- What I’m really thinking: The abortion patient – The Guardian
- Lark Theater pulls its support of documentary on teen sex – California Chronicle
- Conceptus(R) to Present at Maxim Group Growth Conference – MarketWatch (press release)
- Abortion Law is Family Law Since It’s Not in the Constitution – LifeNews.com
- Likely Speaker John Boehner Joins Lawsuit Against Pro-Abortion ObamaCare – LifeNews.com
- Chronicle editorial: Providing birth control is in state’s best interest – The Bozeman Daily Chronicle
- FDA’s New Graphic Anti-Abortion Label – National Catholic Register (blog)
- Clinton: More babies a boon to Filipinos – Inquirer.net
- Sarah Palin Warns ObamaCare ‘Biggest Advance’ of US Abortion Industry – Lifesite
- ‘I Had An Abortion,’ in 140 Characters or Less: An Exchange With Steph Herold … – The Nation.
- In the Philippines, church and state row over family planning – Christian Science Monitor
- Catholic Bishops to Elect New President After Abortion Battles – LifeNews.com