Nearly every time a candidate, presidential
or otherwise, discusses reproductive health in this year’s election
the conversation turns to prevention. Each has his or her specific
ideas about what prevention means. Unfortunately, this conversation
has been woefully incomplete.
There is an important contributor
to unintended pregnancy, especially among young people, that is rarely
mentioned on the campaign trail or even among advocates — namely, the
strong link between unintended pregnancies and dating violence or coercion.
We’ve all heard the stereotypes
and assumptions–"she’s pregnant because she was too irresponsible
to use birth control" or "she got HIV because she sleeps around."
But emerging data is shining a light on a very different story: an astonishing
number of young women, while dating or in relationships, are raped or
coerced into sex, prevented from using protection, or forced into choices
that are not their own.
The correlation between abuse and
pregnancy is complex – and overdue for further research and public
discussion. Consider the following facts:
Rates of sexual coercion are high. New research conducted for the Family Violence Prevention Fund finds that nearly 1 in 5 women age 18 to 24 report having experienced forced sexual intercourse at least once in their lives. The most common types of force are verbal or physical pressure, and being physically held down. More than half the women forced to have sexual intercourse report experiencing each of these types of force. Approximately a quarter of the women report being physically hurt.
Abused women are more likely to have an unintended pregnancy. Forty percent of pregnant women who have been exposed to abuse report that their pregnancy was unintended, compared to just eight percent of non-abused women. As many as two-thirds of adolescents who become pregnant were sexually or physically abused some time in their lives.
Pregnant women are more at risk for abuse. Homicide is the second leading cause of death for pregnant and recently pregnant women.
The Family Violence Prevention Fund’s
new kNOw MORE initiative is designed to start a dialogue about the birth control sabotage and
reproductive coercion that many teens and young women face, and help
draw the link to the resulting reproductive health problems. We
are creating a space for women to share stories, and raising awareness
among those who may be at risk as well as their friends, policy makers
Abuse often takes the form of
birth control sabotage or other reproductive control.
The kNOw MORE initiative shines a
spotlight on the prevalence of coercion and the ways it affects reproductive
health. The stories on our site shed light on how this plays out.
One woman, Kylie, who shared her story, wrote, "when I first met my ex, he never
wanted to use condoms. He did want me to use the ‘morning-after pill,’
I’ll admit. I was quite young and didn’t know how to stand up for
myself, so I became pregnant after coerced sex. For the next four
years, I stayed with my ex for the sake of the baby, suffering the most
horrific kinds of abuse–physical and emotional. His "reason" for
abusing me? Because I ‘trapped’ him through pregnancy. Although
the only thing I’d been doing since the pregnancy was begging him
to let me leave, he threatened to kill me, the baby, and my entire family
if I ever attempted it."
Too often, victims of reproductive
coercion are stigmatized and labeled. They hide their stories because
they feel judged and shamed.
The bottom line is that unintended
pregnancies are not simply a matter of promiscuous young women who do
not use birth control. A pregnancy may be the result of a controlling
partner who has engaged in birth control sabotage or coerced sexual
intercourse. Anyone who is serious about turning back the tide of unintended
pregnancies in this country must also understand the profound connections
between violence, coercion and the reproductive health consequences
– which include pregnancy, STD’s and HIV and emotional trauma –
We can, we must, take action.
October is National Domestic Violence Awareness month, and this year
it also coincides with the 2008 elections – a time when we gather
as a nation to discuss important issues. The time has come for
a meaningful dialogue about how we are going to commit to stopping sexual
coercion and the unintended pregnancies that can result. A generation
of young women is counting on us.